What is joy?
I take great joy in offering perspectives.
I don't even care if its opposing to my perspective, I believe and understand there are thousands or millions of different perspectives out there and each of them just as " right" as the other. I can find joy where others find disappointment, despite your lack of happiness for sad news, I believe without a doubt that somewhere, sometime. Happiness is occurring to balance all despair.
Neither are wrong, both Happen. Relish both.
But relish is kinda gross. I prefer pickles